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COUPLE’S WORKBOOK
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Welcome to the PREPARE/ENRICH Program:
Our Goal is to Help you Build and Maintain a Happy Marriage
Congratulations! You have taken an important step in building a strong marriage by
joining over 2.5 million couples who have bene" ted from PREPARE/ENRICH. Over
the last three decades, this program has been scienti" cally improved and updated.
Research studies have demonstrated it can improve your relationship skills and happiness
as a couple.
Remember to work on your relationship by seeking out opportunities to make your
relationship grow over time. Continue growing by going on date nights, " nding special
occasions to celebrate, and keeping your marriage a top priority like you did when you
were dating.
If you " nd you have ongoing problems that dont go away over time, it is important to
seek professional counseling. Like any problem or illness, the sooner you go for help, the
better the changes are for recovery. If problems persist, contact your current facilitator or
go to our website (w w w.prepare-enrich.com) and search under Find a Facilitator.
On your wedding Anniversary Take the Online Couple Checkup:
One of the best ways to help you maintain a healthy and happy relationship is to invest
times and energy in it. W e highly recommend at least once a year, perhaps on your
wedding anniversary, you take the online Couple Checkup (w w w.couplecheckup.com).
The Online Couple Checkup is built on the foundation of PREPARE/ENRICH, and
provides you with a Couple Report (15-20 pages) and a Couple D iscussion Guide -
both of which help you build a stronger marriage.
Checkup Books:
Build more strengths in your marriage. W hether
this is your " rst or subsequent marriage, we have
a resource for you. Youll " nd even more couple
exercises and relationship skills so you can work
together to create a more satisfying relationship.
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COUPLES WORKBOOK
TABLE OF CONTENTS
*SHARING STRENGTH AND GROWTH AREAS ...................... 2
COMMUNICATION: Assertiveness and Active Listening . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 3
Creating a Wish List using Assertiveness and Active Listening . . . . . 4
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Daily Dialogue and Daily Com plim ents . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 5
PERSONAL STRESS PROFILE:
Identifying Most Critical Issues . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 6
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Balancing your Priorities . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 7
Wedding Stress . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 8
CONFLICT RESOLUTION:
Ten Steps for Resolving Con! ict . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 9
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How to take a Tim e-Out . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 10
Seeking and Granting Forgiveness . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 11
FINANCIAL MANAGEMENT:
The Challenges of Money . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 12
Im portance of Financial Goals . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 13
Budget Worksheet . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 14
The Meaning of Money . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 15
LEISURE ACTIVITIES: The Dating Exercise . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 16
SEX AND AFFECTION: The Expression of Intim acy . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 17
RELATIONSHIP ROLES: Sharing Roles . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 18
SPIRITUAL BELIEFS: Your Spiritual Journey . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 19
MARRIAGE EXPECTATIONS: Managing Your Expectations . . . . . . . . . . . . . 20
CHILDREN AND PARENTING:
Couple Discussion about Children . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 21
Planning a Weekly Fam ily Conference . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 21
StepFam ilies: Choosing Realistic Expectations . . . . . . . . . . . . . 22
*COUPLE AND FAMILY MAPS:
Mapping Your Relationship . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 23
Closeness Exercises . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 25
Flexibility Exercises . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 26
*PERSONALITY: SCOPE Out Your Personality . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 27
GOALS: Achieving Your Goals...Together . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 28
*SIX CORE EXERCISES
SH ARING STRENGTH AND GROW TH AREAS
Your strengths develop by working through your issues.
Check what areas you agree or disagree most with your partner.
Select three Strength Areas (m ost agreem ent and positive aspects of your relationship)
Select three G rowth Areas (m ost disagreem ent and areas you want to im prove)
STRENGTH GROW TH
AREAS AREAS
1. COMMUNICATION
We share feelings and understand each other.
2. CONFLICT RESOLUTION
We are able to discuss and resolve differences.
3. PARTNER STYLE AND HABITS
We appreciate each others personality and habits.
4. FINANCIAL MANAGEMENT
We agree on budget and ! nancial matters.
5. LEISURE ACTIVITIES
We have a good balance of activities together and apart.
6. SEXUALITY AND AFFECTION
We are comfortable discussing sexual issues and affection.
7. FAMILY AND FRIENDS
We feel good about our relationships with relatives and friends.
8. RELATIONSHIP ROLES
We agree on how to share decision-making and responsibilities.
9. CHILDREN AND PARENTING
We agree on issues related to having and raising children.
10. SPIRITUAL BELIEFS
We hold similar religious values and beliefs.
COUPLE DISCUSSION:
1. Take turns sharing what each of you perceive as your relationship strengths. Verbally share one
strength at a tim e, until you each have shared three.
2. Use the sam e procedure to share and discuss growth areas.
3. N ow have a discussion around these questions:
a. D id any of your partners responses surprise you?
b. In what areas did you mostly agree with your partner?
c. In what areas did you mostly disagree with your partner?
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